Finn, Annie, and I are in Charleston this week, spending time with my sweet stepmother. We arrived Monday evening and are leaving tomorrow--a quick visit, squished between ballet rehearsals and play practices. Unfortunately, we missed the azalea bloom. There are a few shrubs still flowering, but most are done and have dropped their blossoms. Oh well! Maybe we'll hit it next year. (Two years ago we hit it at exactly the right time--which was the very end of March!)
"A man travels the world over in search of what he needs and returns home to find it." -George Moore
Thursday, March 16, 2023
Notes from the Deep South
Monday, May 2, 2022
Old-Fashioned Flowers
I like old-fashioned things: doilies, milk glass, embroidered linens, tablecloths.....and I like old-fashioned flowers, too! I was thinking the other day that I sure have a lot of old-fashioned flowers in my yard--these are flowers that seem like the sorts of things grandmas might have planted decades ago. I've planted all of these myself:
the dwarf lilac outside the bedroom window...
the enormous bleeding heart by the front porch (I also have a couple more bleeding hearts elsewhere!)...
Saturday, April 23, 2022
An Afternoon of Flora
Last week in Charleston we had a beautiful afternoon full of flora: just the way I like my spring afternoons! Dad suggested we drive to Mount Pleasant to go to Boone Hall Plantation. I realized it may be the only plantation house in the entire Lowcountry that I've never visited.
It was fun! The property boasts a live oak that is allegedly 600 years old. Imagine that! The house is quite new, by our standards--built in the 1930s, it isn't even a centarian. We all enjoyed the tractor tour of the farmland! But my favorite part was, unsurprisingly, the formal gardens.
Serpentine walls inspired by Thomas Jefferson's design work in Virginia.
Textures (may I please just take a nap in that fennel?).
Massive, gorgeous kale!
Perfect mounds of lobularia.
Roses, my newest minor obsession. I wasn't able to get any ordered this year (something to do with running back and forth to Charleston all the time). Maybe next year.
This rose had a gorgeous spicy-sweet scent. She's a lovely climber. I need trellises!
My Dad walked like a trouper all over the house, gardens, and part of the grounds, but eventually settled down onto a bench to rest, and I decided to call it Time To Go. The chemo has made him a little more tired than usual, although he never complains about it. Did I mention that my previous post about the PET scan was wrong? The one where I said his liver tumors are behaving themselves? WRONG.
Actually, there's no cancer in his liver at all right now.
The original tumor in his lung, which was 4cm in January, has shrunk to about 1/4 of that size.
Spring is so very beautiful this year.
Saturday, April 16, 2022
Easter Hydrangeas
My stepmom returned from the store this morning with two pink hydrangeas, which she plopped into the ancient lichen-and-moss-encrusted concrete urns outside, in order to give the entrance a more gracious and welcoming feel. They're so cheerful!
Saturday, March 26, 2022
The Last of the Camellias
Every time I have gone to Charleston this year, I think "these are the last of the camellias. Sigh!" And then when we return, the camellias are still hanging on.
See how it's just a bit dark on the edges, just a bit "turned?" They're on their way out, I just know it! But Annie found this perfect and oh-so-tiny bloom. My father's garden boasts a wide variety of camellias, from creamy whites to deep pinks, including some fascinating twists (ruffled-petals, double petals, double-color!).
They're all so beautiful.
Sunday, August 9, 2020
Yellow Roses, Early August
My yellow rosebush finished its bloom this past week. I was so pleased at how well it did, in spite of Japanese beetles (for a while Annie and I were picking them off the bush morning, noon, and night!). The fresh blooms on new growth did not disappoint, and I'm going to bravely (I'm a little scared), do a second gentle pruning this month in order to encourage a September bloom--and also to try to retrain the shape of the bush, which needs a little help. The flowers are wonderfully fragrant. They are so nice that I sometimes feel badly, plucking the Japanese beetles off in the midst of their exult, because can you imagine being buried among the petals of a sweet-scented rose? And then having two cruel fingers wrench you out of it?
But I don't feel too badly about wrenching them out, because if they're left unchecked, they will eat the blooms to pieces in no time at all.
August is a lovely mess: the morning glories are over the porch, all my spring and early summer blooms are gone, the lavender has gone grey, the weeds overtake the tomato plants, and it's too hot to do much more than sip iced tea and watch the junebugs whiz by, but oh--I love it anyhow!
Tuesday, May 5, 2020
White Bean & Ham Soup and Whole Wheat Rolls
Thursday, April 30, 2020
The Great Garden Expansion
And it's good that I'm in this manageable place, because new things are coming here on the farm.
My cousin knocked down a couple of these mostly-dead fairyland black locusts last week with the tractor in preparation for the fence work, but we should be able to salvage two of the remaining trees; one is quite large and still very healthy; I need to check on the other one.

{the view from our front yard out to the locust grove. those peonies are so close to blooming in this photo--they just began yesterday! the fence that is pictured will be gone soon....and I love the way the locust trees look when they are blooming!}
So I'm starting to look at these areas every day on my walks, trying to catch a vision for what to do with our newfound land. The ideas swirl! I know it will take me a while to create a vision and begin to implement plans; Finn and I signed up to take an online landscape design course to further our abilities in this department.
It will be a long process; this year my sole goals are to have the new fence installed and to clean the brush and junk out of the fairyland, and get a feel for what I want to plant where, and when. Next year, Lord willing, I hope to start planting in the fairyland. The children and I walked out there yesterday and discussed it: our goal is to have a secret garden where we can sit and relax, and where no other house, structure, or human thing can be seen--just the long view across the fields, valley, and distant mountains. That will involve planting a few hedges. And of course, we want it to be pretty. And peaceful. And fragrant!
Will the new plan for the land involve cherry trees? A grape arbor? A greenhouse? Will it involve a wildflower meadow? An archery range? More lavender plants? Shall I plant spirea, more hydrangea, quince? Should we expand our potager (this is what you call the vegetable garden when your son is a French scholar :))? Install a wisteria arbor?
Suddenly, an acre and a quarter seems way too small!
Wednesday, May 30, 2018
The Unfolding of Things
Saturday, August 12, 2017
Morning Glories Conquer the Porch
Thursday, June 22, 2017
Glory
Friday, June 9, 2017
The Evening Song
Monday, June 5, 2017
Morning Glories
Monday, May 29, 2017
Every Gain Divine
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Wednesday, May 3, 2017
Peonies and Sage
Sunday, April 30, 2017
In the Garden
This is just a tiny sliver of the large amount of flower garden space I have--but it shows one of my coral bells.

Late this week I worked on weeding--it truly never seems to end--and lots of transplanting my muscari. I also had a liriope salon day (they get haircuts every spring).
Tomorrow I'll tell you all about the extraordinary thrift store extravaganza that occurred yesterday. I bought 156 items. (This sounds insane, right? My husband says what's really ridiculous is that I counted it all.) Remember that we're under austerity measures, right? (Note that in my post I did say I am going to purge. Yes! I am! Starting tomorrow!)
I got all that for......[drumroll]....
well, you have to wait until tomorrow to see. :)